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Swedish women / American men about dating, relationship & sex

Swedish women are unique and strong that most of American men admitted. However, there are some differences about thoughts of those single women in Sweden in terms of dating, relationship and sex. Sweden is a country where gender freedom is equaled. I like that but there is some funny thoughts that most Swedish ladies act that I like to talk about. If you are an American man who is seeking a Swedish woman, then you should read this article.

Swedish women and American men

Swedish women and American men

Most Swedish women try to hide their feelings in front of men because they don’t want men know that. They usually don’t make the first move or approach to the man they like. One of my American friends told me that Swedish ladies don’t express their feelings too soon even though they like you a lot. A woman in Sweden usually takes lots of time to let the man express his feeling first. In terms of sex, woh, it is just too hard. She seems not to enjoy it by the way she does it with you. American men complain about the sexual relationships with Swedish women.

Cultural experience

It is about Swedish culture where single women and men in this country behave in terms of dating and relationship. When you go to a bar in Stockholm, you usually sit there for hours without anyone come to talk to you. Single Swedish men in a bar don’t approach to you to make acquaintance unless they judge you for a long time. If you are an American man who comes to a bar in this country, then you must take action. You should not expect any Swedish lady in a club make the first move. No way, you must approach to her first. Another thing is that most of them don’t need you to buy them drinks, they buy and pay for it themselves. You can ask the girl that if you can pay for her drinks, but the answer is usually a “No”.

I think Swedish women are similar to most of European women about their characteristics. They are strong and independent. They are different from American women about dating, relationship and sex. Swedish ladies are very traditional in dating while American ladies are modernized. Swedish women think that they don’t make the first move to guys even though they like one specific guy very much. In terms of sex, they must know and love the man before they bed with him. It takes time to get her in bed. Most of them don’t “try to have fun” about sex.

That’s why most Swedish single women prefer to find men through the internet dating sites like aDatingnest.com or others. They want to slowly know the man by reading his profile, seeking the match, interacting by email messages, then talking on the phone. They like to take time to get know the man before dating him. They like to chat with him, see him in Skype or Yahoo Messenger, get comfortable with him before they want to meet him face to face.

Most of single girls in Sweden who live in Stockholm, Gothenburg, Malmo, Uppsala, Halmstad, Göteborg, Vaxjo, Boden, Falun, Karlstad, Webster, Orebro, Västerås, Skovde, Wtert, Lund, Linkoping and so on, prefer to use online dating services to find a man. They want not only find local men in Sweden but also American men who live in the United States of America. If you are a single American man who lives in the US or Sweden, then you should know it takes time to date a Swedish woman.

European women & American women: who’re you dating with?

European women are nowadays too popular in the United States of America. Thousands of American men choose to date European women over Native American women. I don’t try to offend between two races here but that’s what I have seen such relationships are happening in the US. Also, there are many American men who work or live in Europe, married European ladies and bring them back to the US as well.

European women vs American women

European women vs American women (Photo: aDatingnest.com)

There are some differences between European and American ladies.

Again, this is what I experienced and got from some research on Google.

  1. European women are in good shape. They go to the gym, jog, walk, and work out to stay in shape. They like to live in healthy lifestyle. They don’t “try out” new things if that is not good for their health. About American ladies, they are so beautiful when they are young, between 18 to 25 years old. However, after they have babies, they gained weight. They don’t care about keeping their body in shape. Most of European women get back in shape after about one year when they have baby. It is about the healthy lifestyle, diet, work out, and so on.
  2. Most European girls have been trained since the young age that they learned how to cook and do errands at home. They are good as a housewife when they get married. They are more patient than American women. For instance, most of divorces occur in American couples, the main reason is finance. When the husband gets laid off, his relationship turns into arguments and then, divorce. I think American women are not as good as European women about saving money. Many European-American couples stay healthy after either the wife or husband get laid off because she knows how to save money for future use.
  3. European ladies are changed when they live in the US for a long time…not true. They may change about how to work and live in American’s fast-paced environment but their characteristics don’t change.

European women from the East and West are similar about how they act, treat others and live the healthy lifestyle. Some men complain about Eastern European women are gold-diggers, I don’t think this is true. I mean, if you are a 54-year-old American man who gets married with a 24-year-old Russian or Ukrainian wife, then that’s different story, you know? It is not about love but about exchanging between money and sex.

America is the diverse place where women in Texas are different from women in Los Angeles of California. European women are different from those who live in rural areas and those who live in big cities. I have to conclude that cultural differences in America vary from region to region. So, most women are affected by where they live and grow up.

In terms of love and sex, American women seem to be faster than European women. An American woman can have sex at the first meet if she loves him, but will break up the next morning.

Finally, here is what I think. American women are strong and powerful that billions of men love and want to marry but thousands of single American men are dating European women with happiness.

Tips for Single Men Seeking Dutch Women in Netherlands

If you are one of those men (American, Canadian, Australian, Italian, and etc) who are working in Holland or other cities at Netherlands, you will be impressed about Dutch women. They are the most attractive, tallest and strongest women on this planet. You are working in Netherlands, you are single, and you want to find a Dutch girlfriend. This article provides some tips to help you in the process of dating a single Dutch woman successfully.

Dutch women in Netherlands

Dutch women in Netherlands (Photo from Flickr)

About the looks

Dutch women are friendly, open and honest. They like to date men who are taller than them. As you know most Dutch men are over 6 feet tall and Dutch women are 5’10 feet tall. If you are 5’8 feet tall man, then you have a hard time to date a 5’10 feet tall woman in this country, unless your dating skills are extraordinary. You are not attracted to them right away. Some women in Netherlands don’t find Canadian men attractive physically if they are smaller and shorter than them.

About education and knowledge

Most Dutch ladies are educated and independent so they are looking for men who are equal or higher than them in education. They are independent so they don’t need someone to take care of them. You should be knowledgeable about other global issues as well. If you are an American man, then you must be opened about all subjects, including politics. Most American people don’t like to talk about politics or other global issues.

Learn other culture

Many Dutch ladies in Netherlands are interested in other cultures so this is a good chance for you. If you are from the United States of America, then you should act as a normal guy. Don’t be so proud about that and talk with Dutch girls to make them attracted in you because you are from a greatest county of the world. You need to share about your culture to these ladies, not to show off. Nowadays, the cultural differences are too small that don’t cause any problem in a relationship but precaution is the best policy.

There are slightly differences between Dutch ladies who live in each city. Here are some of popular cities in Netherlands, Assen, Almere, Leeuwarden, Nijmegen, Groningen, Maastricht, Eindhoven, Amsterdam, Enschede, Utrecht, Middelburg, and Rotterdam. Also, Holland is a popular province of this nation and it includes North and South of Holland. You also notice big differences between modern girls in such cities and pure Dutch girls in small villages in the countryside. They are tall and strong. They have beautiful blonde hair and attractive blue eyes.

Clothes and dress up

Most of Dutch women don’t wear high heels because they are tall. They are afraid that they are the tallest people on the planet. They don’t put on strong makeup like other girls from the West. Another reason that they don’t wear makeup is that most Dutch men in Netherlands don’t like to kiss women with strong makeup on their face. Women who live in small villages wear casual clothes and don’t wear makeup at all, unless when they come to a party and festivals.

Choosing a life mate

Generally speaking, they are pickier than single women in America, Canada, Australia and so on. If you are a good-looking man, then they will flirt and approach you right away. If you are a fat and ugly guy, then you may be rejected. They are not afraid to tell you that they are interested in you. It does not matter you are a white Expat who flirt with them in Holland or Dutch American women in Michigan, California, Montana, Minnesota, New York, Wisconsin, Idaho, Utah, Iowa, Ohio, West Virginia, and Pennsylvania, they will tell you the truth if they are interested in you. It is not about they are cold and not polite but they are straight in choosing a life mate.

There are many things to talk about Dutch women. If you can comment other things I miss about Dutch ladies, then hesitate to comment below. That’s all I can write about tips to help single men learn about Dutch women in Netherlands.

Why’re Filipino girls dreaming to marry White Men when they grow up?

That is the question that people want to know. Filipino girls are dreaming to marry a white man when they grow up. Why not a Pinoy? What’s wrong with all single Filipino men in the Philippines? Why do WHITE MEN attract to these single women in Philippines that much? This article may answer some questions you on this topic.

My name is Ashley. I don’t want to talk down to all Filipina ladies. We are so lovely, appealing and sexy. I wrote this article with one goal in mind, that is to encourage you ladies find a white man for marriage online. My first husband is a Pinoy and I was still haunted by this relationship. I found a white husband and currently live in Las Vegas California. My life is pefect.

Filipino girls

Filipino girls

The media is the first reason that affect what these girls think about white guys. There are millions of Filipina girls who live in the West like America, Australia, Canada and so on. These Filipino Western girls prefer to date white men only. Most of them do not like to date Filipino men who live in the West. So, these girls posted their successful love stories online through Facebook, Twitter and online dating sites. As a result, millions of Filipino girls back home saw these beautiful white men with Filipino girls as perfect matches. That’s one of the reasons Filipina girls dream to get married with such a beautiful white guy.

Another reason is about the traits for these white men. No complain. They are loving, caring, romantic and strong. Compared with a Filipino guy and a white guy, oh man, a white guy is like a “Boss” and a Filipino guy is like a “Worker”. You can see the difference. Also, white men have been born and raised in a great countries on the planet so they are very nice to treat women, especially in terms of speech, communication, ideas sharing so on. They always let the woman speak what she thinks is right or wrong. They never try to be bossy or controlled.

How about Filipino men? They have been raised in a culture where women are subservient. Women are considered less value than men. So, decisions are usually made by the men of the family. Women can’t even share their ideas  and express their feelings. Many of these Filipino men who live in the West still can’t change this traditional thing. Most Filipina girls don’t like this. They prefer to be treated equally in the West. When these girls see things in the Western culture, they started to realize that women should be treated equally. They should have these standards in life, decision making, ideas sharing, career choices etc. However, one good thing about men in the Philippines is the traits of being caring. They don’t allow their woman carry heavy stuff.

Nowadays, Filipino ladies don’t want from an oppressive upbringing. They just want to find a white husband who can give them the equal social and economic life that they never find that in the Philippines. Most of Filipinas who live in Pampanga and Ermita want to marry with foreigners because of social economic status. Many of these Western guys marry with ugly and low educated girls. White guys don’t care about choosing the beautiful girls, they don’t. They think that high educated ladies are hardheaded. Many of these girls go for a white man because of the poverty. So, there are different situations for Filipino girls White men marriages.

In conclusion, Filipino women dating white men are considered as high status in this country. As you know, most Filipino people look dark-yellow so they want to marry a white man for brighter future for themselves and their children. Nowadays, they sign up their profiles at the Philippines dating sites to find white guys.

Who Else Wants to Meet Wealthy Men At Niche Dating Sites

Niche dating sites are no doubt the best solution to help single women connect with wealthy men online. Today you don’t waste your time sitting on the club or on the beach waiting to greet a rich man. The internet dating services provide the best method that you can meet rich men from the comfort of your home.

Meet wealthy men online Searching for the online dating sites to sign up a profile is the first thing you will do. You don’t have to post your personal information if you are not comfortable to do so. On your profile, you need to specify what you really want to find in a man. Write it down on the description or title of your ad. For example, “like to meet a wealthy man”, “seeking a rich man” so on. The most important topic that must be on your profile is your photos. Don’t forget to upload your own latest pictures because these guys think you are serious looking and they will contact you. That’s a good tip when you create personals ad.

There are many wealthy guys at these niche dating sites. They are either single or married rich men seeking ladies. What you need to do is to read each profile with care before you contact him. They are business owners, executives, actors, lawyers, traders, so on. They live in luxury life with expensive houses, nice cars etc. You name it. They are looking for a mistress or some of them may look for a girlfriend too. You ask them and find out.

Is it expensive to register a profile at these niche dating websites? It is 100% free service to sign up. Some niche dating services charge membership fee while others don’t charge anything. You decide whether to use paid or free dating sites. It is your choice.

Niche online dating provides advantages for ladies looking for wealthy men on the Internet. There are many wealthy dating sites that you can register with to find a perfect man. To meet a perfect rich guy online, you can just sit at home and use niche dating online services. Nowadays it is possible to meet rich men singles online.

Is it hard to find a wealthy single man online that could be your life partner? I must tell you the truth, it is hard. Most of these rich guys are not faithful in relationship. They are rich so they are looking for fun in life. So, turning a date with a rich guy into a relationship is not that easy to do. However, if you are smart, then you sure can win his heart.

You Meet A Single Woman Online, So What?

Meet single women online

There are some rumors about meeting single women online. I have heard about that. As we live on this modern century, are you still judging these rumors about where you meet a lady? Ah, you don’t have to say it out but think about that topic.

Meet single women online

Meet single women online

With the advance of the internet, you can search for single ladies from a few clicks from your mouse. You can hook up with the girl of your dream. You can search for a woman from any race, religion and etc. Online dating sites or social websites like Facebook or Twitter have connected millions of friends together. These friends later on turn into relationship and many still be friends. You can save tons of time when looking for a single lady online.

However, some rumors I have heard about why you are doing that? My answer is what’s the? I don’t care what they said. to tell you the truth. The way I think is that women are beautiful and good. It does not matter where they are from, at clubs, markets, malls or online. They are good. Some of my friends said that “hey man, online ladies are old and ugly, why do you date such ladies”. You know what? they are wrong. My online girl is just 37 years old and she is perfect. I am 39 years old and she is my like-minded girl. Why do I find her online? I am kind of busy you know so I use online dating sites to find the dream girl. What’s wrong with that? You go to bars and waste money there. I don’t waste a cent by using 100% free dating sites to find my lady. I can save some money to find a girl online. Actually, I have more advantage when using the internet dating services to find single women. I can send a contact with many ladies and pick only the best one to date with.

How about yourself? You meet a girl at the bars. How long do you think she can stay with you? From my experience, most dates I have met at bars last a few weeks. I think online dating can help you find a long term girl.

How to Find Friends Online Free

There are many dating services that can assist you in finding friends online free. In other words, you don’t pay any membership fee at these dating sites at all. You can not only seek love but also find just friends or pen pals. Most of dating websites can help you do this. You can find love and relationship but you can only look for online friends.

How to Find Friends Online Free

How to Find Friends Online Free

What these sites do is to help you meet new people in your area or around the world. If you just want to meet new friends, then you can specify this tip on your profile. So, how do you put that on your profile? It is simple. Setting up a profile takes you a few minutes. After your profile gets approved, you can start meeting new friends online. You can search for friends in your city, province, state, or country. Once  you found the ones you like to make friendship with, drop them a message.

The reason that you need to fill out the profile is that you let other members know about your so they can decide to make friends with you or not. Adding one or two pictures of yourself will increase the chance. If you are looking to meet friends on the Internet, then it is recommended to upload your own photos on your profile.

When you receive messages from other, you can look at their profiles to decide whether or not you want to make friends with you or not. That’s all about finding new friends online. There are free dating sites like adatingnest.com and others that can help you to find people. It is so simple to use online dating sites to seek male or female friends online. Some long term friendships turn into relationship, who knows?

The 5 Reasons Why Women Love Bad Boys

There are 5 reasons why women love bad boys badly. This article will help you to become her ideal man for just being a bad boy. Think about being a little rough and tough is the whole point of this article. You know what? Other men try to appeal to women by dressing nicely, talking sweetly, finally, it turns out no results.

Women Love Bad Boys

Women Love Bad Boys

The first reason that women love bad boys because they are confident in themselves. They are like what they are. They are willing to go whenever they plan to go. As you know there are many many out there who are not sure what they want to do. Bad boys are true men who are confident about who they are like.

The second reason is about the mysterious way when they are interested for something. Women love these mysterious men when they have more fun in a relationship.

The third tip about why ladies love bad guys is they know exactly about women power. Ladies like men who understand about them, giving them power after a while. This part interests in couples on dating, especially for women because they have more control on their life, that they are treated with good manner. Treating your woman with power in mind will help her love you more and more.

The fourth reason that ladies like bad guys is about honest. They can speak their minds of what they think. Women love bad boys because they can speak their heart out.

The final reason is about engaging in sex. Women like to be with men who want to have regular sexual intercourse. They want to have that desire for sex and feel satisfied from these bad boys. After a while, men usually lack of desire for sex and this is a mistake that women want bad boys. Ladies like professional men who are successful in life, but they love bad boys in the bedroom, you know what I am saying?

5 Tips to Move Forward After Your Relationship Lasts

It is never good after your relationship ends because of such strain and pressure from it. But some things that you must do when moving to a new fresh life. There are 5 tips you should do to get out of that past relationship. This will help you become a new person, with confidence and pride.

Singles couple

Singles couple

The first thing is to make sure that you accept what it is, your relationship is over. You don’t carry it on and feel pain every time you remember it. Your relationship has ended. Some people want to try some thing to get it back and running. However, most of them have failed. It is better that you accept the truth and focus on moving forward without having to wait and think about getting it back.

The second tip is to talk to your friends about it. This is helpful because other people can help you let out your feelings. Do not just stay at home and think about it all the time. Talk to your friends about the relationship. You need to express your feelings to your friends so you can feel better and move on.

The third tip is to keep yourself busy and more enjoyable. You should focus on some other things that you like to do during the day and night time. Such things are like to start a new hobby, take some classes that you are interested on. In other words, the whole point is to clear your mind. You need to forget about your relationship. Do not deal with that issues about your old relationship anymore. Move on.

The fourth tip is to old friends or relatives whom you have not contacted for a long time. You can feel better this way. Share your feelings about the relationship and tell them that it is over. You can move on from there.

Finally, one of the most important tip is to get a new date. Why do you have to wait for some thing that does not work out? Move on, go to online dating sites or local clubs to meet new people, friends, pen pals or even a date. That’s what you need to do to move on. I know it is a challenge when you try to move through a relationship, but you have to be strong, which will will make it easier for you in your life. Good luck!

What To Do If Men Just Don’t Like You

Are you convinced that all men just don’t like you? If the answer is yes, your solution might be here. It is good always to remember though that you are created unique with special attributes to make someone feel great. Therefore, what to do if men just don’t like you? This depends a lot on many things. The first thing is realization that you are created unique. This means that you have unique features that may not necessarily attract everyone. Remember that everyone has freedom to make choices, and so are you. Therefore if some men do not like you, just accept it and move on. But, it is good to always make good use of these unique features to your favor. What does this tell you? That be yourself.

Nice couple

Nice couple

Never try to play someone’s role whenever you are seeking relationships. It is absolutely important to come out clear on who you are without having to copy anybody. Remember that when you pretend to be someone, the best you can ever be, is the second choice. Therefore, make sure that you are out there playing the role of your own person. Let men feel yourself, hear your values and what you stand for. Since there is someone for everyone, you are likely to get your suitor very fast.

It is also good to investigate your characteristics. Sometimes your behaviors and conduct can ruin you a good relationship. Men are watchful creatures; even when you are not aware, they are constantly watching. It is advisable therefore to ensure that you conduct yourself well, behave well and present yourself well. In terms of conduct, watch out where you hang out, the group you walk with and even your dressing style – in terms of behavior, it is good for you to watch out how you walk, your reactions and even your looks. All these determine a lot whether men would change their perception to you.

What to do if men just don’t like you also depends on your communication skills. Many men charge women on how they communicate to them. For instance, the way you address men must be reflect on their humanistic nature. Never talk to them as if they do not matter. Furthermore, do not disrespect them when you are talking to them. Some men give up easily whenever they find out that women they intend to date are disrespectful.

Always show that you are also a human being. This means that you should not portray yourself as a supreme being who does not regard other human beings. Show yourself that you are reachable, approachable, and even that you have feelings. In the long-run, human beings need human beings; why therefore should you portray yourself as someone who is unreachable? Men like ladies who are not necessarily weak, but human. This means that you need to present yourself as someone who has feelings for others, someone who needs people and that you care a lot on what people say.

Above all, be principled; do not let go of what you stand for. Do not be weak, but be firm in your decisions. Ensure that people know you as someone who cannot be swayed by different opinions when approached. This can assure men that you are the right woman for them. In addition, always ensure that you give all men who approach you equal chances; do not discriminate against race, physical attributes or even age. Just listen and make your final decision based on how you feel.