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Posted on 05/22/2017

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I am:
Seeking a:
United States
Zip Code:
Caucasian (white)
seeking for a soukmate
In my own words:
I have not done this before. And I am not sure I am ready to do it now, but if somebody is reading it, I must have hit the send button. We are at an age where we are defined by our kids, and I own that. I have one great daughters, with whom I am very close: I have learned he importance of intimacy, the fun of company, and the naturalness of relationship. I probably learned this later than I would have wished. I am the mongamous type. I like being with people, but I only want to be with one special person. I have no patience for the player.

A successful career beats the alternative, but it can come at a cost. Yes, I am in good health, financially secure, and beyond, but I miss not having a special someone to share that/them with. And to be shared with. I am not necessarily looking for someone like me (God no), but someone of depth, a great sense of humor (you will need it), and comfortable in her own skin. I love the broader world and enjoy traveling, but I am also happy on my old boat or in front of a fireplace. I don't need to be going someplace all the time, just as long as I know there is a someplace out there that I have not yet experienced or one that I want to experience again, with you.

I enjoy good food, red wine, jazz or blues , and a comfortable home. I can be a pretentious about possessions, ideas, and contributions to life. However, I am nearly as comfortable on a dirt floor in Africa, or a mud hut in Afghanistan. But traveling, as with life, is to be shared, and I miss not having someone to be with. like to love and be loved. To cuddle, to touch. I guess I am one of those strange tactile guys. I can stay in bed till the wee hours, talking and holding.

Humor and honesty are the personal qualities that keep me going and are necessary in others. One has to be able to laugh, to enjoy - even if it is at your own expense. My humor is pretty dry and sometimes unappreciated. I have been told that there must be a little boy hiding in my body, trying to get out. I am honest to a fault. That too gets me in trouble. But is the only way I can live. What you see is all you get.

Now for the petty -- I've got a couple of houses (including one in Capitola) and cannot decorate to save my soul. When the creative genes were passed out, I was either not in the room or at the end of the line. I know what I like, but have no way to get there. Can you help me?

And I must warn you, I can be opinionated. I enjoy a good argument. But also pride myself on being converted a few times. But there are a couple of things around which my views are not likely to change, and it would probably be easier to live with someone who shares my biases -. I worked and contributed to get Obama elected. And either because of my narrowness or my science, I strongly believe in evolution. So, a person who believes in a literal interpretion of the Bible will be very frustrated with me. I have strong views as well about abortion and the 2nd Ammendment, but will let you ask me about those.

I have moved to Capitola for the winter, but plan to spend summers in the Pacific Northwest. I am going to keep my old boat in Seattle and make the occasional cruise to the Gulf Islands. I'd love you to join me. While she is old (the woodie, of course) she is a classic and she is paid for. I am romantic and like to write poems. I'm comfortable with who I am. If these things that are me resonate with you too, please write.
Looking for:
Hang Out
Body type:
6' 2"
Living Situation:
With pets, With kids, Alone
Social Setting:
Better in small groups, Home Body
TV Watching:
Sitcoms, Sports Nut, News Junkie, Reality show addict
Home and Family
Marital Status:
Have Kids:
Want (more) kids:
Professional Life
Some High School
Employment Status:
Artistic / Musical / Writer
More than $150,000
Attend Services:
More than once a week
Political Views:
Very conservative
Movies, Dining, Dancing
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